My dad keeps asking me to join the family business
My dad owns a small HVAC company that he built from nothing. He is proud of it, and honestly he should be. It paid for our house, my college, everything. For the past year he has been hinting that I should come work with him. Lately it has become more direct. He says things like, “I built this so you would have something secure,” and “I do not want strangers running it when I retire.” I currently work as a graphic designer. I do not make a ton of money, but I like the work. I like the people. I like that my job is mine. The family business would probably be more stable long term, but I feel this heavy pressure every time he brings it up. My mom says I should at least try it for a year because it would mean a lot to him. I am scared that saying no will hurt him deeply. But saying yes feels like accepting a life I never actually chose.
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