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I’m worried I’m becoming cynical

🦌BrightMoon557Helpful Perspectives Given: 0Member since Recently
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I used to be excited about people and plans and new things. Lately my first reaction to everything is skepticism. That won’t work. They’ll cancel. It’s probably fake. People disappoint you. I don’t like this version of me. I feel like I’m protecting myself but also making my life smaller.

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🦊 SoftCoyote540

Try letting one small thing be good without preparing for it to fail. Tiny experiments against cynicism count.

Been Through This

🌙 HollowMaple261

Cynicism can feel like wisdom, but in my experience sometimes it’s just disappointment trying to justify itself.

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