Career

I feel awkward asking for a raise

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I know I should ask. I’ve taken on more work, I have decent results, and inflation is real. But every time I think about the conversation, I feel like I’m being greedy. How do people get comfortable advocating for money without feeling gross?

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Professional Experience

🪐 WanderingJuniper593

Asking for a raise is not greed. It is a business conversation about the value of your labor.

Been Through This

🦌 BrightMoon557

I practiced the sentence out loud until it stopped sounding wrong or shameful: 'Based on my expanded responsibilities, I’d like to discuss compensation.' You're just getting what you rightfull deserve.

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