I stopped waiting for certainty

For years I thought every important decision should feel obvious before I made it. When choosing a college, deciding whether to change majors, and later deciding whether to take a new job, I kept waiting for some moment where I'd suddenly know the right answer. That moment never came. What I've realized is that many of life's biggest decisions aren't about finding the perfect option. They're about choosing a reasonable path and then committing enough effort to make that path work. Looking back, almost every decision that changed my life positively felt uncertain at the time. If I had waited until I was 100% confident, I probably wouldn't have made any of them. One question that helps me now is: "If both options worked out well, which one would I regret not trying?" That doesn't always give me an answer, but it often reveals what I actually want beneath all the fear. Sometimes the goal isn't to eliminate uncertainty. Sometimes the goal is learning how to move forward despite it.